I typically begin my morning with a little intellectual banter. I read the NY Times daily news brief and scroll through Twitter around 6am. This gets my brain clicking and allows me to “gauge” the overall pulse of the day. Quickly, I get all the current events, technology, politics and business news. And, if something sparks my interest, then I tweet about it. If nothing hits me, I go about my merry day. Here’s what “hit me” yesterday:
Scrolling through my feed a post caught my attention. “White culture can’t survive multiculturalism–only white supremacists think it can.” #YearOfTheWhiteMan
Hmmmmm? My thoughts on the subject went like this. I retweeted the quote and simply stated: “Good grief, isn’t this thinking unbelievably outdated? Let’s hope so.” #EmbraceYourFellowMan #Reality #Truth
So, I send that into Twitter land and the shit-storm ensued. When you take it upon yourself to post anything that has to do with black people, white people, racism, supremacy (and the like) the whack-jobs come filtering out of the woodwork. It’s truly fascinating and amusing–not to mention, highly disturbing.
What immediately struck me was the hashtag, #YearOfTheWhiteMan. Now, just a minute. Year of the white man? Good lord, really? People were serious about this hashtag, and here I thought it was tongue-in-cheek humor. Apparently, it is a smart-ass homage to the hashtag #BlackLivesMatter.
People are getting all bent out of shape in this country, so let’s break it down. Sure, this nation has been led by a black President, whom I personally think has a chip on his should (yeah, I said it). And, no, I don’t think the past eight years have proved necessarily beneficial to our country. That said, it is what it is.
We have a reality to deal with. Our nation is a multicultural melting pot and it’s becoming more and more so with each passing day. Los Angeles is composed of most every race except white people. As a matter of fact, I feel strangely out of place when I walk into a venue with a high rate of caucasians, anymore, because it’s not the norm. When you live in a major metro like Los Angeles, you become accustomed to multiculturalism. On the other hand, when you live elsewhere (like, perhaps, the backwoods of Kentucky) this element of change might prove a little more unsettling.
We can embrace change or we can fight reality. We can post social commentary about “white supremacy” and electing a white President–or we can rise above, be solid role models and emulate what it means to be an American.
Personally, I think we all need to embrace what we have to work with and make the most of it. We’ve got no other choice.
Here’s what I can ascertain based on societal observations.
Patriotic Americans are concerned because the staunch conviction that created this country is being rapidly replaced by a nonchalant attitude. Pretty much “anything goes.” If it makes you happy–do it. Hedonism is the call of the day. Mediocre is the national norm, replacing exceptionalism. And, let’s face it, a nation cannot be exceptional– or even marginal–with an apathetic people at the base. Apathy is the greatest threat to this country’s very existence.
“White man” issues:
1). All but forgotten patriotism: I will be completely honest–and I will not apologize: I have friends of all types of ethnicities and not a single one of them, from what I can tell, possess half the patriotic fervor that I do. In my heart of hearts that bothers me. My grandfathers fought in wars. My Dad was a pilot in the Air Force. My brother was drafted for Operation Desert Storm. My other brother found himself in Germany guarding missiles. When you live in a country where your family–people you love and respect–fought and engaged to keep things safe and peaceful, then you truly give a crap. An emotional investment cannot be taught. Either you have it or you do not. People no longer respect the National Anthem. People don’t know the words to the Pledge of Allegiance. Call it short-sighted, call it opinionated, call it whatever you like, but here’s my take on it: If you don’t understand the basics about this nation; if you don’t respect how this country was founded; if you don’t like what this country is about–please go. You are not welcome here. You are not wanted. You are not needed, here. If you want to live here, you need to get with the patriotic program or you can go back home.
2. Pull your own weight: People come to this country to “pursue their dreams.” In other words, people come to America to make a buck. There is some misguided notion that “things are great” in America. In these consumer-driven, soulless times, it’s highly overrated. I don’t care what color you are, if you’re merely here to add to the already soulless population walking around robbing Peter to pay Paul; sucking off the teet of the U.S. Government –please go away. Develop a plan of action to take care of yourself. America isn’t about a free ride. So, whether you’ve been here for years, or you just moved in– white, black, red, yellow, or alien green it doesn’t matter–pull your own load or get the hell out. Thank you, very much.
3. Respect for yourself and others: If you’re a so called “white man” and you’re reading this, then set an example for others, would you please? How much is enough? If you have 4 homes, 6 cars and a yacht, isn’t it about time to help your fellow man? I am sickened by the level of greed and hypocrisy in this nation. When you live up in the penthouse, it’s time to send the elevator back down to help someone else reach the top. The mark of a life well-lived is not measured by what you own, it’s measured by the mark you leave on humanity.
On the other side of the coin, if you are less fortunate–no excuses. We were each placed on this planet with our own individual set of circumstances and burdens to bear. DEAL WITH IT. Blame will get you nowhere. It’s not “the white man’s fault.” We are living in the 21st Century and today is today–the past is irrelevant. When your attitude sucks, you suck. You can either choose to work on your individual set of circumstances, or you can miserably wallow in your own pain and suffering. Get busy living or get busy dying. You are responsible for your own outcome. This is the way the world works.
The sad part about today’s society is that everyone is living in fear. The “white man” feels that the United States is being diminished and destroyed by free-loaders who do not care, nor have the mental, emotional or spiritual capacity to care. The black man feels slighted because this country was built on the literal backs, and the blood, sweat and tears of his forefathers. On top of that, we have people of every race and creed known to mankind coming to live in the United States (legally and illegally) who are not personally invested in what’s going on in this country. The level of overall apathy has reached an all time high.
We live in strange times. Change is brewing. As a society, we can either embrace it and make the most of it, or we can continue to flounder. We must learn to communicate about what the hell is going on so we can understand one another. Understanding creates empathy and trust. We need to articulate our hopes, fears, and dreams. Hashtags like #BlackLivesMatter and #YearOfTheWhiteMan are asinine to the cause. Raise awareness? Awareness for what? Awareness for the fact that we all need to pull our heads out of our asses and start mindfully pulling our own load?…(I’m down with that train of thought)! If you have something worthy or thought-provoking to add to a conversation during these tumultuous times–speak up. If you do not, then keep your head down, mind your own business and keep your idiotic hashtags to yourself. We have serious issues to attend to in this country. Good day. #BeTheChange